im curious if this is something she would like to pursue, or if it is something you would like her to pursue (and if indeed you have a sexual relationship with her). i have never been inorgasmic but having an orgasm isn't terribly important to me when i'm with a partner (if it happens, then great, but i'm not upset if it doesnt happen). i do find that being pressured into it (or just having the other person think it's an important part of sex) is a surefire way to kill it.