(((petunia))) be gentle with yourself... </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
I just need to remind myself that this is sooooooo in the past and that I have to learn to let it go.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> isn't a fair way to talk to yourself, imo. That you are revisiting this, and continuing to place it where it belongs, is learning to let it go, imo.