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Originally Posted by needinghelpnow
Hi I would like to get some feedback on this especially from women living with a partner who has ED. I have been married 6 years now and have never had sexual intercourse with my husband because of his ED. There is no cure for it other than a penile implant which is way too costly. I love him but am tired of having to always recourse to other means for satisfaction - so I would just rather never be intimate at all. Of course he doesn't agree and gets mad and pouts about it. I feel he has no reason to get mad since it is his problem, and I am being nice enough to stay with him despite of it. Any comments/suggestions???
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ED really destroys a man's self-esteem. He probably feels really worthless at this point. Worthless and powerless because he is unable to perform what every man wants to - to satisfy their partner. I think you should seriously consider getting a Sybian. I know they are expensive, but it has a number of benefits:
(a) It will meet all of your sexual needs RIGHT AWAY
(b) Have him participate in the operation and kissing and fondling you during use of it and he will again feel part of your life sexually, which is what he really wants (but is unable to)
(c) You may his condition improving from the experience and the possibility of having sex together naturally in not out of reach
Hope this helps. Good luck