I used to wish T would call and check on me, but it's not how the boundaries of our therapy relationship work. If I call him and ask, he will always call me back. And we leave each other voice mails after each session, so I guess he can express whatever he wants to on those.
I think he called me one time...during a period where he was concerned that I needed to be in the hospital. He actually called and said something like "I just wanted to check and make sure that I have your appointment time right in my book", which was so silly, because I have always had standing appointments. So, I said yes, and then he asked how I was doing, and we talked for a little while. That was nice, but way, way, WAY not how it usually works.
If you need support, could you call T??


