hmmmm, this is an interesting topic. For me, my T agreed to see me because he was already seeing my sister and so he knew a lot about our family and had an idea regarding my issues....well, he THOUGHT he did..... I think that he got WAY more than he bargained for! Anyway, I know that he says he has a waiting list right now, so he must have some way of selecting clients versus not....I've never asked him though!