Hey guys,

I am the exact same. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed at times. I have had a few boyfriends but I just don't have the "ummph" in me to enjoy the sexual side to the relationship. When I was seeing my Counsellor back in June 2010 she had asked why I felt like this and I could not answer her. She has asked if I was gay which I said no to as I don't feel I am attracted to women like that, I do like the company of other women though.

I am at the moment rather confused about my sexual preferences and think I will never be happy with who I am as I don't understand who I am if that makes any sense at all.

Life would be a lot easier if I knew why I don't like to have sex etc. Even the thought of a guy's penis makes me feel sick and nervous.