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“He says he's in a good mood and just wants to live a happy life. He misses the happy person i used to be.”

It seems like your focus in really all on him. You mention the HE misses the person you "used to be". Who was that person? Sometimes we get so wrapped up in "making it work", that we don't take the time to just sit back, clear our heads and remember how we felt in the beginning. Ask him without anger or judgment what he "misses" specifically and then take the time to ask yourself if YOU miss that too.

In marriage there really is no black and white. There are many gray areas. Meet him in the middle without "You" statements and keep the focus off of him.

Give it whirl - it's worth a try. YOU are worth it.