I am seriously thinking it is something I'll have to do....the result is always the same.let them in ....and ouch.But not a small ouch.I will continue to help people but I will never again sit one one one chatting a human and open my feelings.I can help them with theirs...but the door to me discussing my heart is shutting for my own protection.I am just too fragile to be doing this.Things are never as they appear to be.And I want to thank you for your replies.~W~