(((((((((((((wolf)))))))))))))))) you are such a wonderful and caring person that i for one would miss it if you were to harden your heart, please don't, it is not good thing to do, believe me i did it for many years and it ate me up, completely wrecked me in the end. it may seem the best option at present but trust me it isn't in the long run, a bit like using cheap glue, it works for a while then everything falls apart!
i am here if you need to unload, just pm me and i will get back to you (((((((((((xxx)))))))))))