hello, I know how you feel ..I too wonder that sometimes ..if you find one , ask him if he has a brother and give him my name lol ..alittle story for you ...I have this friend who thought she was so IN LOVE and the guy broke her heart ..well, she came to me and cried and cried and cried ..she thought she would never find someone to love her again ,,Then Whammmm out of nowhere she met this guy !! they dated , got married and I was told 2 days ago they are having a baby!!!! she is so happy ,,I think it happens when we least expect it and their are good guys still left ,,good things come to those who wait ..I hope this will be a great year for you and it brings you lots of happiness and LOVE ,,,take care