My 9 year old asked me a difficult question last year, but my answer (I think) applies here...She wanted to know why folks like Britney Spears and Paris Hilton got so much attention if being a modest and giving person was such an attribute...My Response....Honey - they get attention because they make sure that their every mundane move is visible....You Don't Find Diamonds Lying Around On The Street....they are rare and therefore harder to spot...But The Hunt is so worth it.....May You Find Your Own "Diamond Man" in the New Year...grace