Many relationships end up like you are experiencing......the other person doesn't get it because the other person hasn't expressed themselves in plain & clear......or the other person never felt that the relationship was what you felt it was in the first place.

It's obvious that your ex doesn't consider that the relationship was anything more than what it is right now or she wouldn't be figuring that that there is nothing going on. All relationships go through their rough spots......they only succeed if the people work through the problems....not walk away from them or avoid them.

Maybe it's something you both need to sit down & talk about....you might actually be able to resolve the problem that's bothering you rather than trying to hide away from it or calling it quits before even trying to resolve anything. All relationships take work to make them work out....same sex relationships aren't any different.

How many times have I heard in marriages that the husband just doesn't get what I'm mad about......duh, they don't just get it because you are feeling it....sometimes things have to be spelled out & worked through........only then can any relationship work