You're not an outsider here, Lyle (I love your name, btw). I'm not much of a hugger, but I think I can speak for all of us when I say that we're all happy that you found us. We understand, and yes, it WILL get better, Lyle. I am sending you some positive vibes ~~~ and will toast you and the other hurting people at midnight tonight.

TC,
Love,
LMo