Does he know about your OCD? Have you told him? Ask him to look up the meaning of it, and how it affects people. If he wants to know you better, just TELL him how sometimes you feel numb and confused. Tell him that all the stressors that you have keep you from being able to categorize things ~ and it's hard to know HOW you feel about anything!
I can certainly understand that!! When I get over-stressed, there is NO WAY I can understand my feelings - they're all OVER the place, and I don't know where they belong!

There is no way that you're defective, my dear. And there is NOTHING wrong with you. With your parents acting like little kids, and the fact that you're grieving for your precious pet ~ along with the normal stresses of life, how CAN you know what you're supposed to be feeling? I'm sure you're angry with your parents, plus you're grieving for your pet -- and the world is in chaos ~ good grief!

Just try to take care of YOU. YOU are what matters. Forget your parents - they are supposed to be adults - let them figure things out. You are the most important person right now. God bless. Hugs, Lee