Welcome and hopefully you are able to find what your looking for here. I surely agree with a lot being said already. BP is NOT an excuse for bad behavior. We are each responsible for our actions, good or bad. It takes true comitment from BOTH parties to make a relationship work. Yes, there is a higher seperation rate when BP is involved but it doesnt mean it wont work out.

From my opinion of your writing sounds like you are right in the choices you are making. Yourself and your daughters safety and welbein has to come first. Sounds like he is not putting forth anything but empty promises.

Good luck and be safe. Love can't heal everything and some times it comes with a lot of pain.