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Originally Posted by MoAnamCara
i feel also there have been some misunderstandings with t and I and her perception of my thoughts. will think about it as i said and go from there. am seriously wondering if i need to quit t altogether. am i overthinking too much? am i too self absorbed? i felt t was bothered by me today by the time i left, because i didnt jump on the intense whatever stuff and because of my responses to her and because twice i asked her to stop talking so that i could get out what was on my mind at that time. my perception of people is generally pretty spot on, so it makes me wonder if this is the right t for me, or me for them as a client?
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(((((((((Mo)))))))))
These are really good questions, and worth bringing out into the open. Sometimes I guess what T is thinking, and I get it wrong, and when we can talk openly about whatever it is and make sure we understand each other, it helps.
I'm SO sorry the boundaries changed. I haven't experienced that, but it was definitely one of my fears earlier in therapy. I *know* I would feel like *I* had done something wrong, whether I had or not. Blah.
It sounds like a hard time. I'm glad you're posting...sometimes just writing helps me untangle the knots in my head.
