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Im kind of surprised she'd take this so harshly if you two have been together for over a year. While I firmly believe it is important to have uninterrupted alone time with your mate, when kids are involved it can be a bit more tricky. I could understand her frustrations if you constantly had the phone by your side and did nothing but answer in the middle of intimate moments. But if you only monitor your son 2 - 3 days a week and get the crucial alone time with your girl, I'd think she could be a little more understanding...
I think if you get with someone who has kids you kind of have to understand that its not all play time. So I don't really think you were wrong to keep the phone by your side.
Really, I'd have just compromised. Hah. Have some intimacy and fun but nothing so major that it would be a massive killer if the call interrupted the moment. Since you could save that for times when you know you won't have to split.
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