Ok ~ you get upset with your BF if he looks at other women. So if you look at other women, you're asking if that's doing the same thing, correct?

Who cares if your bf looks as long as he doesn't TOUCH. Men are going to look until they're dead. LOL It's just the nature of the beast. We can't make them quit. It's just they don't have to be so OBVIOUS about it when they are with US. It's hurtful if they whistle or ogle while we're right there!! If they want to look out of the corner of their eye when WE aren't looking, ok. But don't stop and turn around and stare at her backside while walking with us.

The same with you -- you wouldn't do that while you were with your bf. You know it would hurt him. We've got more sense than they do most of the time. LOL There is nothing wrong with looking -- as long as you don't touch.

There's NOTHING wrong with you, dearheart. You are perfectly normal. So stop beating yourself up -- you're a healthy female. Don't worry about it. Hugs, Lee