Thank-you for replying, not very many people do. The reason this is so frustrating is because my boyfriend is the best. I have never met anyone like him. He is supportive, he doesn't give me signals about anyone else, it's all in my head, but I just can't let go of my way of thinking. My shrink says I might just have to come to terms that I might be better off alone. In other words he's given up on me. I can't even walk outside my front door without thinking if only I looked like that he'd never leave me.