i'm not mad, just hurt. i've never known her to be angry, and she's especially healthy about handling anger - whether it's mine or someone else's. she's one of the most professional people i know. i'm just not sure what to make of all this. it seems odd that i haven't heard from her, but maybe she's just trying not to engage. she's good at "staying out" of things, and maintaining her own boundaries. i'm just really hurt that regardless she wouldn't contact me at all just to check on things. is that not proper of a therapist to do? i know that tree said that if you don't ask for a direct call that it doesn't usually happen (which has been my experience with her), but still. like doesn't she care? does this mean she's over it??