I can understand both sides. I don't know it just is hard to be a parent and a boyfriend at the same time. I really try and I understand how she feels, but I feel there has to be a way to create a balance.

Marjan,

If you left because you wanted him all to yourself and couldn't understand, am I to think if my girlfriend cannot grasp the parental concept that we too are doomed? I ask because you have been there.