Ok as the only guy to reply so far, I'd say yes I do find it sexy, but like in all these things, it has to be mutual. I wouldn't want to be dominated in all aspects of life, but being able to get a straight answer to a question would be amazing!

It's all about moods and not taking anything too far but i guess the same could be said for any relationship.

I'm guessing einudzwanzig that you are German? I know in the UK at least there are very few taboos against strong women. I know that for myself I'd rather date someone I can argue and discuss with than someone who will agree with whatever her man says.