I make it a point to put everything out on the table. I realize 23 isn't old but I have played enough games so that I'm to the point where I'm not dating to date anymore. I'm dating for a long term, possibly marriage, relationship. And I'm totally done trying to impress or be someone I'm not.
So I told my bf "I get jealous sometimes. I can be a real *****. I most likely won't change anything bc it bothers you and it's the same for everyone else. I'm very stubborn and do things my own way. I don't need anyone's help and do not need a man for anything. If I'm with you it's bc I enjoy your company, not bc I need a man. If you can handle my crazy, we will be okay" lol
So now if he ever says anything I just ask him "what did I tell you?"
I am super lewd too. I belch all the time. I cuss like a sailor. And I have been known to get into my fair share of bar fight lol (typically over baseball haha). So we went out to dinner and I accidentally burped lol. In a restaurant I try to be a LITTLE more civil. And he gave me this look like "you are the most disgusting human being ever". I asked him "how many times have we met?" and he just kinda stared. Eventually he thinks "yeah....I have known for years how rude she is" and drops it haha. But I do the same thing every time he crop dusts in a store somewhere.
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