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I don't think I've caught my T in any lies exactly.....but I have seen her be very careful in answering some questions sometimes (and to be fair, they probably qualify as loaded questions! ) and I think she has tried to be honest and yet has omitted parts of the truth she didn't feel would be helpful to me. That I understand.
Once she made a statement in a session that did directly contradict a statement (regarding a boundary issue) she had made in the previous one. I asked her about this in the following session and she said she saw how they were contradictory and how that was confusing to me. She admitted she was in the wrong on that and apologized sincerely....that was when she decided to make the gift to me of the little touchstone rock with the word 'trust' on it.That honest and open, and even humble sort of response helped heal and repair the trust that had been hurt.