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Originally Posted by Squiggle328
To be honest, I still have those crazy sexual thoughts about her. The difference is that now they don't overpower me. They don't get blown out of proportion in my mind! I think of it like this. How many times have we been sitting in church and thought, "I wonder if so and so has sex? Does the preacher have sex? What about this person or that person?"
It is just the mind wandering! Nothing else. Just those random crazy thoughts that come in our minds. At least they come to my mind. Maybe I am alone on this? Do others think this nutty stuff?
With my therapist, I really think being alone in her office so much just caused that reaction. We do talk about sex alot, so I just naturally had those thoughts in my mind. The next thing I know, I am thinking about her. Does she have sex? Does she enjoy sex? I wonder if she is thinking about that when we are talking about my disfunctional sex life?
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this really tickled me, squiggle!
Sex is sort of topic that makes me blush to talk about in much depth, but to be honest, yeah, I have found myself sitting in church too, or other places, and getting surprised by random thoughts about how I wonder what so and so does in bed?!!
My T and I have discussed the difficulties in my husband's and my sex life, too and she has been rather frank about suggestions to improve it!
So anyway the other night when things were going on I suddenly thought, I wonder if T is doing something like this right now?!
Not great timing for a random thought.....
