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Originally Posted by poetgirl76
Anyway, I was pointing something out to her and bumped her hand with mine and I was like, oh, sorry! And she sort of murmured, it's OK, and acted like nothing out of the ordinary had happened......so probably your T won't make a federal case out of it either or think you are perverted! 
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I have thought about asking her,
"What would you do if I accidentally touched you?"
My feeling is she would say, "
Is that something you feel you need to do? What makes you feel the urge to do that? Could this be that you are wanting to test the boundaries? Is there some rebellion going on? Is there something hidden in this? Could this be your way of asking me for something without using your words? What would this touch mean to you? and on and on and on! You know how therapists do!
For me, I just want to do it because I am not supposed to! I would just like to see how that would make me feel. Would I get a warm fuzzy feeling? Would I feel rejected if she didn't react in a positive way? Or since I seem to have these erotic feelings sometimes, would I want to throw her in the floor and attack her?

NO, this last one I would not do, but it is a hilarious visual image to think about!
Look for the thread:
"Squiggle attacks therapist in session".