I have had thoughts like that too. A few months ago I told T that my sex drive had been "through the roof" (meaning high) and she said, "well, this is good, it's what makes us feel alive..." and I started to wonder if that was how she characterized her own feelings. A few other times we have talked about more explicit sexual stuff and I couldn't believe she was re-stating a couple things I said in order to confirm her understanding. Yikes!! LOL