Wow! I give you so much credit for recognizing the need to move on in your healing by getting a new T. It's such a hard things to do, but I think that your reasoning makes a lot of sense. I am also someone that really needs to be pushed and challenged, so I really relate to you there.

I would guess that the *warmth* may increase as time goes on. This has been the case for me and my T. His boundaries are still very strong and clear, however, he has loosened up a lot in terms of the affection that he shows to me.

Glad you are here