hi sweetlove, i'm glad you worked through all this. i was going through something similar with my therapist with regards to the phone, and felt the same way as you: why hasn't she called to check on me?! my therapist's "policy" is similar to inbloom's, as she's told me she wouldn't want to call and trigger me if i had moved on and was in a better place.

at any rate, i'm glad you got this sorted out.