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Old Mar 02, 2011, 10:14 AM
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if I can learn to trust that I can make healthy connections with others and if I can learn to trust that it's a mutual connection and I'm worthy of the connection and the love in it.....that yes, it will suffice!
So trust is an area to work on? And feeling worthy?

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maybe someday I can feel full enough, that the ache from the empty place is much diminished or even displaced.....
"The ache from the empty place" - some expression of this in therapy and some mourning can make this go away.

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I know I also need to learn to be content with the connection I do have with my T, rather than be discontent for what it cannot be .....
But this discontent with what it isn't is info on what you still have to work on.

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I need to learn how to enrich the real-life connections I have
Yes!
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Thanks for this!
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