i think it's perfectly normal for you to feel sad...for the girl who died at a very young age and the sadness for your friend. why not contact him and ask to meet for lunch to catch up. guess the other advice i'd give is try to move on and not dwell too much on this. it is always difficult when something happens like this...lost my best gf the same way so i know. but celebrate your life and strive to make it meaningful.  life can be so fragile at times.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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