It can be. Most of the time it's not too much of a problem and he's lovely and amazing. It's just I wind him up easily and he works so hard and that stresses him. :/ it's a LOT less now, before it was most of the time. Now I now not to fight or argue (which I never used to If I thought I was right I would be so stubborn) and he's fine. I guess in a way I hate that sometimes he feels like he needs to tiptoe around me now and I don't want it to be that way. He's fine now, it was just in the past and I think the way I used to hate him so much, and the way he's so skeptical, makes it hard now for me to open up when I feel bad. I guess we've only had a good relationship for like half a year so it takes time. Thankyou!