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Old Mar 02, 2011, 04:13 PM
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I just wanted to sday that I strongly agree with MissingMyOldSelf's advice on standing up for what you believe in. If you feel uncomfortable and insulted with bf's ideas of threesomes, come straight out and tell him.

I can imagine how often men bring that idea up to you ~ I don't kinow a guy who isn't turned on by the thought of watching girls. It's understandable that bf's desires bug you. That would bug me too!

Have you noticed yourself going for the same type of man, whenever you do have a bf? We frequently go for "certain types" and stick to that pattern throughout life. It's possible that the type of man you're attracted to is a strong lust ~ rather than in the relationship for deeper emotional bonds. Something to think about anyway...

Gentle hugs to you!
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