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Originally Posted by madisgram
... very conditional thinking, etc. in "shades of grey" i am more forgiving of other's faults and my own ... i learned i didn't have to be perfect all the time nor expect it of others ... i learned how to relax. i learned to "play".
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Thanks for your input. I have to admit I am really eager to defend conditional thinking, aren't I? I've even caught myself thinking "Fun is serious business" (!) at times. You've given me more information to integrate.
Like I said, my neuroticism/extraversion/openness traits need some "rebalancing". I'm working on it. Uhhhh ...
playing with it.
