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Originally Posted by lavieenrose
I want to find more resilience within. I need to stop running from everything that seems difficult, aversive. I wonder to what degree my poor concentration is worsened by constant self-talk about how poor my concentration is. My mind is very suggestible. I have to bring to mind memories of peaceful moments, even blissful moments that I've had, not caused by external circumstances, but by a shift in consciousness, or by "grace". I can't force this to reoccur, but I can choose to sow seeds, and choose how to respond to negative states when they arise. My mind so automatically frequently veers toward the negative. It takes vigilance and effort to address the pattern. I need to call up greater willingness to make the effort, and not pull the blankets over my head, passively wishing it would all just get better somehow. This is my life and my misfiring brain. Today, I'll try for greater acceptance of what shows up in my life, not apathy or victimhood, but fighting or fleeing.
Onward, you spiritual warriors. 
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I love the term spiritual warrior!

This post is really beautifully written and I can relate to so much of it. I am also terrified of certain unpleasant feelings and I freeze up around them. I also dwell excessively on the negative and my mind is particularly open to anything which suggests anxiety or sadness.
I love what you say here about needing to call up greater willingness to make the effort accept what shows up.......... I need to do this too.
I'm sorry today is a painful anniversary for you (((((((((lavie))))))))))

Wishing you peace
PS: As ss says, please don't apologize for venting!!!!