((((((WePow)))))) I'm very sorry it hurts.....but I know even soul bruises can heal, the pain lessen, with the right, gentle care and with time.
I can't say I've found it easy to unconditionally forgive my T and keep trusting when I have felt hurt by her ...... but I try to remember that she's human and not perfect, her intent is to help and not hurt, and that there are so many many things that prove her care and far outweigh the unintended hurts. It's easier too to forgive someone who is genuinely sorry about their mistake or the hurt they caused and who is genuinely sorry and willing to help repair the hurt....