I have always been told that I am plain spoken. I don't see it at all, and have gotten my feelings hurt A LOT when people tell me that. I guess over the years I have gotten used to it. This is me. I don't know any other way to be.

If we are really wanting to be successful in therapy, we have to honest with our feelings. Even if it means admitting to your therapist that you, "Have the hots for her!" Crap, that was just about the worst thing you could ever tell your therapist face to face. Well, I think I may have been looking at the ground or out the window when I said it. I sure did not want to see the look on her face when I admitted that!

What if I said, "I am totally in a sex crazed (horny) mood everytime I think about you." Now that would be raw honesty! I am not making light of this at all. Well, maybe a little, but this is NOT a laughing matter at all when you are going through it. Geez! I was miserable. You guys know how upset I was when this was all going on. Not fun at all.

When I think about it now and wonder what the look on her face really was when I admitted that, I start laughing my fool self silly. To the point of peeing in my pants! Yes, I have run to the bathroom many times trying not to do that. My family has no idea what is so blame funny!

The secrets we keep from others, yet we share on PC and with our therapists. That is priceless!