I have found that a lot of ignorant people assume anyone other than heterosexuals are just sex fiends. Like when a guy tells another guy he is gay and the straight guy thinks he is hitting on him. Never fails. It's just ignorance, really. Sounds like maybe you need to find someone a little more accepting.

I understand that my bf looks at magazines and what not. I used to care but not really anymore. He actually said he has basically quit watching porn because watching it makes him want ME. And if I'm away at a conference or whatever, he can't have me so he doesn't even want to think about sex. I guess that makes sense. If a guy hits on me, sure it makes me feel good, but I take that good energy home to him. Does that make sense?