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Originally Posted by learning1
But it still feels like I'd be trying to teach him the skills I've experienced some t's have. I don't know if it's a good trade off.
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If you're in a position where you feel you need to coach your T on therapeutic skills, it's probably not gonna work! That's the point of seeing a professional--presumably those skills are already in place so you can pay for the privilege of utilizing them.
Trust your gut on this one. I had a similar dynamic with my former T--super relaxed, loose and easy...but just couldn't keep focused and get my work done with him. Go where you can get your work done.
Good luck!