((( HUGS )))

That is SO not what you needed to hear. I can understand how you could be upset by that statement, especially since you have such a strong connection to it. I hope you can give T the opportunity to know and understand what you're feeling, and to help work through it. Words can be so powerful, and each person's perception can be different. Your T may very well have had better intentions, but it came off as not only triggery for you in particular, but also somewhat dismissive.