Squiggle328 wrote:
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I would like to ask her some questions like she asks me: "How often are you having sex? Is it satifsying for you? Do you feel that your needs are being met? Is there something you haven't tried that you are considering thinking about doing? How does your husband feel about making changes?"
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Talking about that could conceivably benefit your T, if she wasn't talking about it enough and whoever she talked to was a good listener. It doesn't sound as though you'd get enough out of it yourself, though, to make it worth taking up session time with. She probably wouldn't go for it, at least for that reason.
If I wanted to make the point that I was a bit uncomfortable answering questions like those, I guess I might consider running them past my (hypothetical
*) T that way: "I'm wondering if I'm the only one who's uncomfortable answering questions like those or if you would be, too."
If I did ask, though, I'd expect my (hypothetical) T to want to explore further what about those questions I was uncomfortable with.
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*I haven't actually been in therapy for quite a while.