Hello and welcome to Psych Central. You will probably need to see a psychiatrist and a therapist for the social phobia. I know that it can be difficult, but you really need to try to be honest with your parents. You should not have to go through this alone. Also, the two drugs that you mentioned are MAOIs and I don't beleive that they should be considered until you have tried other medications first. A psychiatrist will know what to prescribe for you.