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Mar 03, 2011, 01:52 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm so sorry you're hurting so much. I can understand. I remember many years ago when a guy I loved ended up marrying someone else. It tore me to pieces. But I couldn't hate him -- I wanted him to be happy, and evidently he couldn't be happy with ME. 
Do you REALLY think your ex is BAD??? I don't think so.  That's just the hurt talking. If you thought he was "bad" you wouldn't be crying over him. This pain WILL end, I promise you. I will take some time ~ patience is the key here. I remember not WANTING to be patient. I wanted the pain to stop YESTERDAY. But each day it will hurt less just a little. It might not seem like it, but it will. Soon you'll discover that the pain is gone ~ and you'll have someone else in your life.  Don't harden your heart so that no one else can come in.
I wish you all the best ~ my thoughts & prayers are with you. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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