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Old Mar 03, 2011, 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Tishie View Post
Lynn....

Not going into details as this is not about me its about you.

Sometimes things turn up so the idea of living in poverty ? Who knows ? Personally I would leave and see what happens as you never know what is around the corner for you.

Children know more than you think they do they are so smart they pick up on things and are affected.

Hugs to you...
I know you're right and I would tell another woman in my shoes the same thing. The kids do realize the odd living situation. The problem with leaving is - he would unleash his extreme hostility to me and this would really hurt the girls. So I'm in the spot of picking the best of the 2 worst situations - one is 'hell sometimes' and the other is unpredictable revenge/misery which might put a rift between him and the girls.

Lets say I won several million -I definately would move and hire a high priced lawyer. He has police officers and lawyers who are friends - he has a definate advantage over me. So I'm very scared to pick that option. I know you're right but I feel my hands are tied ATM.
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