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Mar 03, 2011, 06:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Squiggle328 
This is starting to get too big in my head. Oh, no! That is so not good. I will start thinking about this, and then it will snowball in my mind until I am in a fullblown panic about touching her! I will think about it every time we are together.
Maybe I should address this with her and just say, "I have been thinking about the no touch boundary. Have you ever gone past that boundary? What were the cirumstances? How would you feel if I touched you?"
Don't have any idea what she would say. I sure don't want to get my feelings hurt and made to feel like I have cooties or something!
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Suratji posted~ I'm sure that I would never ever be brave enough to ask that question. If you do, please let us know how it goes.
Squiggle's response: I actually think I could say this to her. It would have to be the right moment for me, though. I can ask her just about anything and she usually will answer me. Just for kicks, I may do this on Monday!! I may even try to sneak a 'touch' in and see what she does. Thought about asking her if she would hold my hand just so I could see what that would feel like! 
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