I'm just popping in before I go to bed and I just wanted to thank everyone who responded to this thread. The old saying "you reap what you sow" is true here because I feel humbled by all this support and kindness. I love helping out here and never expect anything in return because it just makes me feel good - so it over whelming to get this support.

Eskie - Since I don't talk about this issue much, I know it must seem confusing. We still live in the same house but separate bedrooms. He's not here too much cause he works late but is here on Sunday, part of the day. He's not much of a home body...lucky for me.