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Originally Posted by kitten16
. I don't know what his problem is, that he always takes the side of anyone else who has hurt me. He stopped doing it for a while, but now that it's back, I'm thinking I just need to terminate. And this is hard because there were a string of sessions, like 16 or 18, where he was just great, and I really thought we were making progress. Now he's acting like he did at our first session - hostile, remote, treating me like I suck.
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Whoa, kitten!!

If you have talked to him about this and haven't been able to resolve it, it is SO time for you to get a new T. I tell T sometimes "I need you to be on my side" and he always, ALWAYS looks at me very seriously and tells me "I AM on your side" and I believe him. I need that.
I'm sorry it sounds like therapy has been so hurtful

You deserve WAY more than that.


