Medicated, I'm really sorry your therapist is not being understanding. That would be really hard. I am diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder, but I'm often unsure if I really have it. I do have a hard time with criticism and I don't like really big social situations. I can't make small talk, but part of that is due to being autistic. Anxiety is a terribly difficult thing to deal with on a daily basis. It really wears you down... And I'm sure you can find a good romantic partner. Some people it just takes longer than others and you aren't that old to begin with. I wish you well.