Two thoughts for his behaviour: 1. He really does like you too, just unsure how to show it. 2. He was feeling amourous and thought you a likely target. I think you were wise not to share him your true feelings. They might overwhelm him. Let that relationship play out. See if he can relate to you at college, out in public. That would be telling--positively if he does, negatively if he does not. Then, if the former, let your feelings naturally take you whereever the relationship goes.

Good for you making the appointment with the counselor. Hope it works out for you this time. Till then, why not try writing in a journal? Good for airing your thoughts and clarifying them.

Take care!