I'll admit it...I'm a minute woman. More than 15 mins and I'm done. Usually I have to hold myself off to even go that long! I guess that's good in some ways. I almost always reach orgasm. However....lately things have been ending a little too quick.
Not premature. But typically about 10 minutes in I hear "oh no....I'm sorry". Ugh. This started a few months ago and the first time I brushed it off. The second time I attributed it to he was thinking about the last time which made him more nervous etc.... But now it has happened like 5 times in the last couple months.
He says it's because he is just so attracted to me that he can't help it. I guess I should take that as a compliment, if it's true. But at the same time...I can only be sooo frustrated. I try to be supportive but MAN! Sometimes I can have him just do other stuff afterwards to get me there but, most of the time, the mood is ruined (for me at least) and I end up feeling wound up and just....frustrated.
Now he is feeling like I am not going to want him anymore because of this sudden spike in early ejaculation. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to make him feel bad but I need mine too! We have been together over 2 years and this just started. I just can't think of anything that has changed recently to cause it. But I don't really know the kinds of changes that cause this anyway? Any ideas?
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